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BigMama Heading up to C's school for the cafeteria's Thanksgiving Feast. Mmm, nothing like turkey and dressing at 10:30 a.m. Served in a cafeteria.

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missfish You know what would make this day the BOMB? A new study finding numerous health benefits to eating maple bars&sprinkle doughnuts regularly

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JenSinger wonders how the sound system knew the average age at the gym today was I-wore-leg-warmers-when-they-first-came out.

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mamabirddiaries I just asked my 3 year old what she is grateful for today.... She said, "God and ice cream."

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Jack McLaughlin, 11, who has diabetes, needs physical-education class every morning instead of the usual two days in every six. Credit: Clem Murray, Philadelphia Inquirer / MCT

Jack Laughlin will start middle school every day with gym class.

What might be a nightmare for other middle schoolers is a dream come true for the 11-year-old Exton, Pa., student and his family. Jack has diabetes and as we reported earlier, he and his parents, David and Cathy Laughlin, argued he needed daily gym classes to recover from his post-breakfast sugar high.

Students at Lionville Middle School usually get gym classes two out of every six days. They spend the rest of their mornings in music and reading skills classes.

School officials initially said there was no compelling medical evidence to rearrange the schedule for Jack and he could get the exercise he needs through a school walking club and intramural athletics.

Now officials have changed their minds.

"Because Jack takes insulin throughout the day and night, it is important that he engage in physical activity on a consistent daily basis," Zeger said in her letter. "Daily physical education class can and should be used to provide such activity."

When district officials failed to give Jack the classes they requested, the Laughlins filed a complaint under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973. The federal law requires school districts to give disabled students the same educational opportunities as their non-disabled classmates.

"The district complies with all the requirements of Section 504," McGlone said in her e-mail. "We do our best to work with our families to provide our students with the best education possible."

Cathy Laughlin is pleased for her son.

"I think his day is going to be set up a whole lot better," she told the Inquirer.

Related: Parents, School Fight Over Gym Classes For Diabetic Boy

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But walking the walk ain't so easy, as the famous preschooler discovered. Credit: PPNY / GSNY / Splash News

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The annual Becher-Ware Turkey Bowl. Credit: Gary Becher

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Suri Cruise owns this sweater dress and red velvet dress from Jacadi. Credit: Jacadi

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"I couldn't understand what I was looking at," says the woman, whose identity was not revealed by the newspaper. The work sheet, titled "Solving Equations using Multiplication and Division!," featured a photo of a black man in a straw hat and a shirt and suspenders, his mostly toothless mouth agape. Underneath the picture is the grammatically incorrect phrase, "NO WAI!!!"

"I chose it because it said 'no way,' which is a comment my students make when I require them to show each calculation," he writes in an e-mail. "I had no idea that I might offend anyone. I am very sorry for any distress that this has caused my students and the community." Curran claims that he found the image through a Google search for "multiply and divide."

The student's mother was not only distressed by the image, but also by reports of what happened to her son when his classmates saw the work sheet. The boy is the only African-American student in the pre-algebra class, and he says he was teased by other students.

"One of the kids in the classroom turned around and said, 'Is that your father?,' " she tells the Courier. "We are highly insulted and offended. We sent him to school to learn pre-algebra. He should be protected from this stuff, not have it thrown in his face ... He gets enough (racial slurs) and negativity from the kids. To have the teacher encourage it?"



The boy's family met with NAACP Bucks County President John Jordan, and released a written statement about the incident, the Courier reports.

"It brings into question whether all of our children are being provided a safe and fair environment in which to learn. What happened here is unacceptable, and we will take steps to make sure it never happens again," the statement reads.

According to the NAACP, several other students expressed their concerns about the picture, but the teacher told the kids to keep working, says the boy's mom. She did, however, ask her own son why he didn't leave the classroom. "He said, 'Mommy, I'm in school.' He knows the rules. He has to follow the rules," she tells the Courier. "He's trying to get on the honor roll right now."

Nick Chubb, Lenape Middle School principal, declined to comment but did tell the newspaper that administrators are investigating the matter. In the meantime, the boy's mother is keeping her child home until the situation is resolved.

"Racism is usually so subtle. To have it so blatant is what is so shocking," she says. "Hopefully, we can all learn from this and move forward in a positive way -- for everyone, not just the black kids or the Hispanic kids or the Jewish kids or the other subgroups ... We need some peace and understanding. I don't want hate."

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Are snack bars healthy? Or glorified candy bars? Credit: anne.oeldorfhirsch, Flickr

There are so many different kinds of snack bars available that pretty soon they're going to need their own aisle at the supermarket. Can any of them be considered a wholesome snack for your kids? Or are they basically glorified candy bars?

VERDICT ...

Granola Bars: The good thing about granola bars is that the main component is a whole grain. But read the labels -- some brands have twice as much sugar as others, and some contain partially-hydrogenated oils. The less a granola bar resembles a candy bar, the better, so avoid varieties that are dipped in chocolate or spiked with white chocolate chunks.

Cereal Bars: Initially devised as a breakfast option for those who feel they need to eat on the run, cereal bars are composed primarily of sugar and white flour (and in some mainstream brands, artificial colors). These are not a good breakfast. The organic brands, in particular, are fine as an occasional snack, but understand that cereal bars are not health foods -- think of them like you would Pop-Tarts or cookies.

Energy Bars: Be careful with these. Energy bars formulated for adults have adult quantities of vitamins added to them, and some, like Clif Bar's Carrot Cake and Chocolate Brownie flavors, contain five teaspoons of sugar per bar, which is more than a chocolate-glazed cake donut from Dunkin' Donuts. Plus, there's nothing about energy bars that make them more energizing than whole foods like cheese or nuts.

Fruit and Nut Bars: Fruit and nut bars, like Larabars, contain very few ingredients -- they tend to be made of nothing more than dried fruit and nuts. Unlike some other snack bars, fruit and nut bars are not just a dessert disguised as a healthy snack. These are your best bet.

Jennifer Schonborn is a holistic nutrition counselor, certified by the American Association of Drugless Practitioners. Sign up for her newsletter and free consultation at jenniferschonborn.com.

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TV host Larry King, left, and his sons Cannon Edward King, center, and Chance Armstrong King, right, earlier this year. Credit: Michael Kovac, FilmMagic

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Divorced parents may find themselves shopping for their exes during the holidays. Credit: nkpix, Flickr

If you're divorced, you might find yourself in the uncomfortable position of having to help your child buy a holiday gift for your ex-spouse -- and possibly a stepparent.

It can certainly test your character.

"Hey, son, I have an idea. Give your mommy a bag of broken glass and your new stepfather a big box of Band-Aids. Tell them you want them to share."

Resist the temptation to expose even the slightest hint of bitterness, Bonnie Ross, an Oregon-based family and child therapist in private practice said in an interview with ParentDish.

"Make the event planning and purchase an adventure of fun," she said.

Make the child an integral part of the process. This doesn't mean your child should only select the Christmas or Hannukah gift. Involve her in the financial part as well and make the outing a teaching moment about sound holiday shopping decisions.

Set a price. "Have the amount you want to spend in mind, perhaps even lower than you had in mind," Ross said. "Then sit with your child and have him/her brainstorm possibilities within your lower price range. Emphasize the gift is for the parent, not the child. Then the child -- if he or she chooses to increase it up to your limit -- can actually pitch in and earn part of it."

Remember that you are really shopping for your child, not your ex. This isn't about your ex, said Susan Stiffelman, a marriage and family therapist and resident AdviceMama for ParentDish. "It's a tremendous act of love -- for the child -- when divorced parents help their child shop for gifts for the other parent," Stiffelman said. "The child gets the clear and important message that they have two caring, mature adults to lean on."

Help with a homemade gift. There's nothing wrong with children giving homemade gifts and cards whether during the holidays or for other occasions, like birthdays. "I'm for homemade cards personally," Ross said. "If not homemade, then definitely at least a heartfelt note."

Keep the magic in the holidays. About.com offers a Web site to help divorced parents cope with Christmas shopping and other holiday traditions that can be fun but also stressful following the breakup of a marriage.

"There is a certain amount of magic and wonder about Christmas that no child should be robbed off," the Web site tells parents. "How you deal with your separation and divorce during the holiday will have a lot to do with how much magic and wonder your child experiences during the holiday season."

One other thing to remember, Ross said: Your ex-spouse might well go holiday shopping with your child for you. If your ex is the cranky sort, he or she might want you to send extra money. After all, why should he or she have to spend money on you?

"At this point, swallow and remember why you are no longer with ... blank," Ross said.

If you are a spiritual person, just ask that the good Lord bless them and keep them -- far away from you.

"Children don't sign up for divorce," Stiffelman said, "They are, in effect, the innocent bystanders of a huge disruption to their lives. When parents rise to the challenge of putting their children first, they will find the strength to put their own hurt and anger aside to help their children know that both of their parents support them through the holidays."

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A father in Texas allegedly forced his 8- and 9-year-old daughters to watch hardcore online pornography. That's not against the law in the Lone Star State.

The girls' mother thinks it ought to be.

She is protesting a law passed by the Texas Legislature in the 1970s that allows parents to show children "harmful material." The law was intended to protect parents using graphic material to teach their children about sex.

"I understand in the '70s everybody wanted the government to stay out of their homes," Crystal Buckner tells The Associated Press. "I don't want to stop parents from having that right to teach sex education, but there's a big difference, and there's a line you shouldn't cross when teaching."

Buckner's ex-husband is not charged with a crime, but he is accused of forcing the girls to watch adults having hardcore group sex on the Internet. Unable to get criminal charges filed against him, Buckner has mounted a public crusade to get the law changed.

Buckner tells the AP that she learned about what her ex-husband did after one of her daughters talked about it with a counselor in June. Her ex-husband still has visitation rights with the girls once a month. However, given the allegations, officials at the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services have exercised their authority to require the visits be supervised.

State Sen. Bob Deuell, R-Greenville, vows to take Buckner's crusade to the Legislature. He tells the AP that he hopes to see the law changed in the 2011 Legislature.

Meanwhile, Randall County District Attorney James Farren has asked Texas Attorney General Greg Abbott to review the law to judge the exact size of the loophole it gives parents who may have more sinister agendas than education.

Farren doesn't see much hope outside the Legislature. The law is the law, he tells the AP. For now, it provides cover for the wrong people.

"I don't think that's what the legislators intended, but it's the result," he tells the news service. "If our interpretation is wrong, that'd be great. It's fine. We'd love to go ahead and prosecute."

What do you think? Does the law open the door for children to be exposed to pornography? Or is this an isolated incident that threatens people's privacy and how they teach their children about sex?

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Expecting parents who hope for a specific gender -- and then get the opposite -- can go through real feelings of depression and shame. Credit: sallyrae17, Flickr

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